熟读两句英语

亦书

A sense of inferiority is a kind of feeling that can interfere with our ability to make things better or prevent us from taking action. I had such a feeling when I was studying in middle school. At that time, I was short and my hair was somewhat white. I always cared about my disadvantages and focused on them. When I played basketball, the thought of whether I was being laughed at by others was constantly on my mind, so I couldn't perform well in the game. As I grew up, I looked back on those days and thought they were ridiculous. Half a year ago, my daughter said to me, "Sometimes I have a sense of inferiority because I don't have a beautiful appearance." I smiled at her and shared something with her: "How you live is up to you, not others. If you don't have confidence, who will give you confidence? Confidence can make you beautiful."

自卑感是一种会干扰我们改善事物能力或阻止我们采取行动的感觉。我在读中学的时候就有过这样的感觉。那时，我个子矮，头发还有些白。我总是很在意自己的缺点，并且总是盯着它们看。当我打篮球时，我总是在想别人会不会嘲笑我，所以我在比赛中表现得很差。随着我长大，我回顾那些日子，觉得它们很可笑。半年前，我女儿对我说：“有时我会因为自己不漂亮而感到自卑。”我笑着对她说，并和她分享了一些想法：“你怎么生活是你自己的事，不是别人决定的。如果你自己没有信心，谁会给你信心呢？信心能让你变得美丽。”